i m really super confused and tired of all these...keeping of secrets or knowing of so many secrets is indeed tiring.you know something but yet you cannot say something because you promised it and you shouldn't break the trust.however,you have to keep thinking of how to speak to others because you cannot say the secret. at times you even have to keep the secret because you know the secret will hurt some one....damn...i really duno wat to do...i m really tired of all of this...